Informal Time

This week got to meet up with two of my boys separately.. There wasn't any cell setting or any formal instruction to pass down.. purely just want to fellowship!! Come to think about it, i hardly have good quality time of fun with my boys.. since almost everytime we meet for processing and cell, so i purposely made the objective of the meet up to be very relaxing and kpoing with them about "unusual" topics. hehe.. This is informal time! =)

So during the two informal time of chatting, i laughed with the funny and paiseh questions i used to poke my boys.. in return, i found out more "darker" secrets and confessions.. (don't worry sons, my mouth is tight) wahah.. It was good, building a more intimate relationship with them, just like being a friend to them more than a leader.. This is what G12 is all about.. we Leadership, be a Shepherd and also Manager.. all these just out of a heart wanting to Love them.. the "Love Language" woohoo!!! =)

Our Ps Cesar (spiritual great great great grandpa in Cambodia) once said "Informal time is important!" i can now truely say i understand and experience this point with my spiritual sons..

Reflection:
Let's not be too caught up on looking at and anticipating the outcome or result in matters or on people.. Let us be seeing hope in everyone, speaking and showing nothing but only the "Love Language" =)