5 hours of waiting time, is it worth it?

"Sitting down, laying down.. its just so uncomfortable!! i needed a bed.." This is what i was thinking and hoping for at the airport.. what happened was, i waited for a best buddy of my lifetime coming back from overseas.

His arrival time was 540am and i waited him personally at the airport since 1230am. you know, it's a terrible feeling if you got no one picking you up or welcoming you back. So i decided to stayover at the airport.

A total of 5 hours of waiting time i had before he made his appearance in front of me.. i was so delighted..

"Jin Ke Qiang Welcome Back!!" hehe..

Many things in life have their values.. Money has value, things kept for a long time have their values, and even ourselves have values with the qualification in studies.. haha.. so how about friends?

In my life, friends played an important role. They encourage me, support me, help me and make me laugh.. eventhough there are hard times, friends still care for me, love me and protect me.. i do treasure friends a lot, but at times don't know how to express myself very well.. and i believe many may share the same problem..

But the sad things is sometimes people chooses friends by their looks, style, character, background and even for benefits.

Shouldn't we compare? haha, yet everybody is unqiue and special is his or her own ways..

A friend is understanding, forgiving us for what we did wrong, never leaves when you are in trouble, share your ups and downs, always want the best out of you, never ask for anything and so so so much more... so what is the value of a friend to you?

Since you know how a friend should value, shouldn't you be a friend of your friends around you?

Friendship are sweet and beautiful, don't let it be one of your regrets for not treasuring anyone around you who are true and nice to you. =)

A Miracle Or Coincidence?

This might had happened to me but... hehe...

Recently i had an amazing experience of life and death while crossing the road.. I was taking a route back to Redhill Mrt Station by walk, crossing a lot of small narrow roads. When it came to the second last junction where i was about to walk across.. Suddenly, i heard a voice telling me that there was a car approaching.. So i stopped instantaneously and looked onto my left.. At the bend, "ZooMMMmmm!!!" a black coloured car speeded pass me..

Wow!! i was so gladed that i did stopped and looked.. Immediately i thanked God for saving my life..

So people, how will you consider about my escape from a car accident.. a miracle or coincidence?

Erm, it is a coincidence if you think i happened to be cautious and checked for cars before crossing the road..

However, i believe it is a miracle because i trusted God was in full control of the situation, telling me to stopped, preventing the car from knocking into me.. and sparing my life by His amazing Grace from any suffering..

I realised how amazingly God did to save my life.. HE warned me that there's a car coming. HE stopped me from moving forward. He allowed me to witness and feel His Awesome power by watching the car flew pass me. It just so supernatural and i am so grateful for HIM for saving my life.

"How many times in life we ignored Him, we chosed our way of life.."

My little prayer..

"Lord, allow me to be listening to your calls.. Please don't let the world blind my feelings for You.. i want You to be the shepherd of my life.. teach me, grow me and guide me to be more Christ liked. Thank You for Your amazing love and grace upon me.. i want to serve you with my life."

Do you want to see miracles? Do you desire miracles to be happening in your lifetime?

haha.. wait no more!! because i did. Hope you will have a supernatural encounter with God.. =)

"I'm not a bad person, i just have bad luck!"

I had an interesting hang out with my little boys in catching a show. Well, the movie was none other than "Spiderman 3". Woohoo!! Finally i watched.. some of my friends even commented "wah! so slow den watch ah". Indeed it's a very good movie i will recommend everyone to watch. 5 stars man!! Yeah..

At the beginning of the show, a very interesting tag line caught my attention. It was said by the escaped convict(sandman) when he was forced by his wife to leave the house. He said, "I'm not a bad person, i just have bad luck." Wow! i was so amazed because isn't this sound very familiar among people while discussing or sharing issues in life like studies, work and results..

While in school, one of my schoolmate always complaint that he isn't stupid or slow in studies, it is just his luck that the questions in the exams are always those that he is not good at. That's why he failed the paper.

During my secondary school time, i found out that friends got a partime job which was very relax and easy YET we got the same amount of pay rate!!! i was furious and complaint that it was just my luck.. although getting the same pay rate, i had to work more than my friends.

The funniest was from my parents.. Always complaining that they are down on their luck of having a long "drought" not striking 4D.. Everytime switching on the tv text, never will i fail to hear long winding "Aiyo" and "Suay"(which means bad luck) from them.. hehe.. lucky enough they do not know i got a blog.. =X

What i am trying to drive at is.. many times in life when things happened in a bad way or problems surfaced, we do resort to excuses to allow ourselves to feel better and not do anything about it. "Luck" just happened to be one of easiest excuses we can find. When things come in handy or hard to have solutions, we will naturally want to run away from them, put them aside and don't care about them, or even pretend that nothing even happened!!

In the past, i always run away from problems, friends and family. Because i did not want to deal with it.. I was scare.. I did not know how to.. I found and felt it was difficult.. By doing this, i created more problems instead.. well, not many i really could take it.. However each was a growing process to learn and grow strong. =)

There are matters in life we really have to bite our teeth and believe in ourselves that we can do it. We don't rely on luck very much.. All we need is extra effort, extra care amd extra focus at different situations..

Finally, i reflected and got this..

"Stop finding excuses for ourselves because dare to deal with the matters will allow us to grow in character, learn and understand more about values in life.."